Bondage - a secret wish?

Q:
I so want to experiment with a small Bondage. In my opinion, it should be very exciting. How can I offer my best friend sex with bindings, do not scare him. Can I get injured doing so and have sex at all, is it a perversion?

Answer:
Well, of course, what else could be the picture of your friend in the brain at the word belt! Belt, Master, Sadism, Masochism, - in general, we can fantasize as you want! Horrible torture chamber covered with skin-headed perverts, a whip, the groans of victims, pleading for mercy. This is enough to get your boyfriend ran screaming from your heels.

However, if you throw all the cinematic nonsense - why, then immediately come to mind are images from the movie "Pulp Fiction" - that in essence Bondage increases our sensitivity, leading eventually to an emotional atomic explosion, that is to orgasm. Love joy type of master and slave can be brutally whipped up sex if your relationship is based on mutual trust. You do not want to leave your boyfriend cripple!

Remember the fun children's games such as salochek and koldunchikov? In the same way you share on the lead, that is, the Boss, and the victim, ie, Rab. The owner shows how dangerous it is lewd and obscene. That he or she is in control, and including the emotions and feelings of Rab.  

The latter is completely free of responsibility, he was just there and enjoy the feeling of a game.

So, how to predict your partner's reaction to the offer to play in BDSM? Here are a few tricks. Want to use them all you want - in part. Only one BUT! Lowing your partner can mean a really moans of pain, not pleasure.So anyone sadomasochistic fervor!

1. In order to make aware of your friend's ambitious plans for the sexual field, select any particular date.Well, for example, the day of the birth of his beloved cat or some other significant anniversary. In this case, you can easily get away with it, if the reaction of your partner suddenly turns sharply negative."Oh, But I think you'll like it."
2. On you should always be wearing something - whether it's leather bra with high boots or slippers, a bathrobe. Even professionals confirm that no clothes and shoes can not give orders. The latter case is more related to your "victim."
3. Your office must be considered a stitch. So quickly undress him.
4. Tie your "victim". When you stop looking buddy, you agree awkwardly into the role of host.
5. To be more convincing you need to get up to the counter and tell the victim: "On your knees! Crawl! Etc."
6. Instead of any whips and harnesses to bind better simulate captivity. That is not to limit his freedom from the fear of the pain of a whip or pulling ropes, and the fear of your displeasure. You should insist that the victim did everything the way you want.
7. Slight scratching claws during lovemaking, biting or hair pulling - an easy way to check your partner's sensitivity to pain.

And one more thing regarding CM - love this version of merrymaking can resurrect in you experienced in the past fears, therefore, went into the image of the Master, beware! Of course, to release your emotions - it's cool, but if you crave a steep Bondage with whips, to begin with, it is best to notify your friend.